STA STAY SAFE
"Everything comes back to how safe we feel - everything: how we feel and behave, whether we can connect, learn, play - or not. It all comes back to felt safety.
The foundation of felt safety for kids and teens is connection with their important adults.
Actually, connection with our important people is the foundation of felt safety for all of us.
All kids will struggle with feeling a little disconnected at times. All of us adults do too. Why? Because our world gets busy sometimes, and ‘busy’ and ‘connected’ are often incompatible.
In trying to provide the very best we can for them, sometimes ‘busy’ takes over. This will happen in even the most loving families.
This is when you might see kiddos withdraw a little, or get bigger with their behaviour, maybe more defiant, bigger feelings. This is a really normal (though maybe very messy!) attempt to restore felt safety through connection."
Karen Young - Hey Sigmund